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Roshan
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  3:37:58 PM  Show Profile  Visit Roshan's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by enforest

quote:
Originally posted by Roshan

quote:
Originally posted by enforest


LHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA


So good...




No. You're wrong.



No. You're wrong.

You have no idea why something is 'so good...' so don't tell me I'm wrong.



I know it's funny, who couldn't help laughing a little, but I also know it's not good. It's sadistic, especially when the person it's about decided to leave just a few hours later. If you would like to be a sadist, then of course it isn't wrong according to your 'belief' system.

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enforest
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  3:58:09 PM  Show Profile  Visit enforest's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Roshan

quote:
Originally posted by enforest

quote:
Originally posted by Roshan

quote:
Originally posted by enforest


LHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA


So good...




No. You're wrong.



No. You're wrong.

You have no idea why something is 'so good...' so don't tell me I'm wrong.



I know it's funny, who couldn't help laughing a little, but I also know it's not good. It's sadistic, especially when the person it's about decided to leave just a few hours later. If you would like to be a sadist, then of course it isn't wrong according to your 'belief' system.

6w7w-4w3-1w9 sx/so, enfp



All you do is moralize and try to keep people in check. You don't really want to understand people, you just want them to respect your conception of what is human. But I think this behaviour of yours stops you from feeling human yourself. You do so much work to get others to be human because you've lost your own connection to that inside.

You still haven't asked me what I meant by it, even after I told you this fact. So you don't really care to give me the benefit of the doubt. I don't want to engage you further on this. I'd rather you write me off as a sadist.
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Roshan
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  4:03:18 PM  Show Profile  Visit Roshan's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by enforest

quote:
Originally posted by Roshan

quote:
Originally posted by enforest

quote:
Originally posted by Roshan

quote:
Originally posted by enforest


LHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA


So good...




Whatever.

No. You're wrong.



No. You're wrong.

You have no idea why something is 'so good...' so don't tell me I'm wrong.



I know it's funny, who couldn't help laughing a little, but I also know it's not good. It's sadistic, especially when the person it's about decided to leave just a few hours later. If you would like to be a sadist, then of course it isn't wrong according to your 'belief' system.

6w7w-4w3-1w9 sx/so, enfp



All you do is moralize and try to keep people in check. You don't really want to understand people, you just want them to respect your conception of what is human. But I think this behaviour of yours stops you from feeling human yourself. You do so much work to get others to be human because you've lost your own connection to that inside.

You still haven't asked me what I meant by it, even after I told you this fact. So you don't really care to give me the benefit of the doubt. I don't want to engage you further on this. I'd rather you write me off as a sadist.



whatever

Edited by - Roshan on 09 Dec 2011 4:56:31 PM
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enforest
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  4:04:54 PM  Show Profile  Visit enforest's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Roshan

quote:
Originally posted by enforest

quote:
Originally posted by Roshan

quote:
Originally posted by enforest

quote:
Originally posted by Roshan

quote:
Originally posted by enforest


LHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA


So good...




Whatever.

No. You're wrong.



No. You're wrong.

You have no idea why something is 'so good...' so don't tell me I'm wrong.



I know it's funny, who couldn't help laughing a little, but I also know it's not good. It's sadistic, especially when the person it's about decided to leave just a few hours later. If you would like to be a sadist, then of course it isn't wrong according to your 'belief' system.

6w7w-4w3-1w9 sx/so, enfp



All you do is moralize and try to keep people in check. You don't really want to understand people, you just want them to respect your conception of what is human. But I think this behaviour of yours stops you from feeling human yourself. You do so much work to get others to be human because you've lost your own connection to that inside.

You still haven't asked me what I meant by it, even after I told you this fact. So you don't really care to give me the benefit of the doubt. I don't want to engage you further on this. I'd rather you write me off as a sadist.



6w7w-4w3-1w9 sx/so, enfp

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Roshan
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  4:57:05 PM  Show Profile  Visit Roshan's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by enforest

quote:
Originally posted by Roshan

quote:
Originally posted by enforest

quote:
Originally posted by Roshan

quote:
Originally posted by enforest

quote:
Originally posted by Roshan

[quote]Originally posted by enforest


LHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA


So good...




Whatever.

No. You're wrong.



No. You're wrong.

You have no idea why something is 'so good...' so don't tell me I'm wrong.



I know it's funny, who couldn't help laughing a little, but I also know it's not good. It's sadistic, especially when the person it's about decided to leave just a few hours later. If you would like to be a sadist, then of course it isn't wrong according to your 'belief' system.

6w7w-4w3-1w9 sx/so, enfp



All you do is moralize and try to keep people in check. You don't really want to understand people, you just want them to respect your conception of what is human. But I think this behaviour of yours stops you from feeling human yourself. You do so much work to get others to be human because you've lost your own connection to that inside.

You still haven't asked me what I meant by it, even after I told you this fact. So you don't really care to give me the benefit of the doubt. I don't want to engage you further on this. I'd rather you write me off as a sadist.







whatever
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S
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  5:21:28 PM  Show Profile  Visit S's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Why is it funny? I'm lost.

Is it because I've challenged you all? So you'd rather right me off as snarky and gollum-like than someone with an opinion?

This board is about as healthy and useful to someone's progression as a year's supply of McDonalds.

6w7. "dark" so/sx (I try not to quote so please respond as honestly as you like and I'll honour if you want to delete later)
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Roshan
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  5:25:36 PM  Show Profile  Visit Roshan's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Saintly

Why is it funny? I'm lost.

Is it because I've challenged you all? So you'd rather right me off as snarky and gollum-like than someone with an opinion?

This board is about as healthy and useful to someone's progression as a year's supply of McDonalds.

6w7. "dark" so/sx (I try not to quote so please respond as honestly as you like and I'll honour if you want to delete later)



the pictures would be funny if it were about me, or about anyone. they are funny pictures, they are ridiculous. that's the reason why. i am just making that one concession to him so he can compare the sliver of possible reality he may perceive to the delusionalness of all the rest. like if he's telling me the entire wall is white when it's black i would concede there is a dab of dark gray in the corner. otherwise he will think he's right for his ranting and raving about god knows what because he can say I'm the delusional one. they're funny pictures, that's all.

Edited by - Roshan on 09 Dec 2011 5:31:25 PM
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Roshan
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  5:29:13 PM  Show Profile  Visit Roshan's Homepage  Reply with Quote
of course he will say it anyway, that there's something wrong with me, not him but this way he will know for sure he's wrong.
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Roshan
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  5:32:18 PM  Show Profile  Visit Roshan's Homepage  Reply with Quote
i don't mean 'it's' funny like you or the situation, just that they're funny pictures. silly funny pictures. the situation isn't funny at all.
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sunny
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  5:32:38 PM  Show Profile  Visit sunny's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Saintly

Why is it funny? I'm lost.

I laugh at almost everything, but I didn't laugh. It's not funny in my book. Not at all. It's ridiculous.

Is it because I've challenged you all?

Please don't let yourself go there. That's not how it is.




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S
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  5:32:49 PM  Show Profile  Visit S's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Nah, it goes deeper than that.

Glasgow, Earthing and Enforest are three people I've personally challenged.

So be it, what comes around goes around.

I have to get out of this [blocked due to guideline #4 violation]-hole. Roshan, please do the same.

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Roshan
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  5:34:15 PM  Show Profile  Visit Roshan's Homepage  Reply with Quote
ridiculous = laughable. they are laughable. ridere, latin = to laugh. they are laughable.
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Roshan
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  5:35:49 PM  Show Profile  Visit Roshan's Homepage  Reply with Quote
he says i am moralizing. why should i take the bait and give him more ammunition?
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Glasgow
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  6:05:49 PM  Show Profile  Visit Glasgow's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Saintly

Nah, it goes deeper than that.

Glasgow, Earthing and Enforest are three people I've personally challenged.

So be it, what comes around goes around.

I have to get out of this [blocked due to guideline #4 violation]-hole. Roshan, please do the same.

6w7. "dark" so/sx (I try not to quote so please respond as honestly as you like and I'll honour if you want to delete later)



no. you have insulted a lot of people on board full of hate attacking imaginary enemies and without any reasons.
and you explained your hate with your problems irl. and you have initiated some threads looking for help with your problems of hate and outbursts of fury.
the hypersensitive role turning into the fury role in the gollum style again and again.
and finally you say that the board is unhealthy and makes you sick fabricating your victimhood.

its not about challenging glasgow, earthing and enforest .

btw when someone posted a pic of a little child on this thread addressing you you already lost your temper..


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S
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  6:08:29 PM  Show Profile  Visit S's Homepage  Reply with Quote
You're not an imaginary enemy. You're not even an enemy. You're just someone I have a visceral reaction to.

And what about you, Glasgow? Why is JoL, Robin, Roshan and Cakes saying it's your problem in my thread, and not mine?

Are you so blind?

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Glasgow
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  6:13:21 PM  Show Profile  Visit Glasgow's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Saintly

You're not an imaginary enemy. You're not even an enemy. You're just someone I have a visceral reaction to.

And what about you, Glasgow? Why is JoL, Robin, Roshan and Cakes saying it's your problem in my thread, and not mine?

Are you so blind?

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because youre playing the victim . your manipulation works.

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S
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  6:14:31 PM  Show Profile  Visit S's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Glasgow


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Glasgow
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  6:23:31 PM  Show Profile  Visit Glasgow's Homepage  Reply with Quote
yeah, sort of.


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Roshan
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  6:31:03 PM  Show Profile  Visit Roshan's Homepage  Reply with Quote
glasgow, you put up the picture, then she put up the post, then you tell her to calm down. read her first post again. where is the victimization? anyone could've written it. the site is obsessive, unhealthy..not too different from what others have said in public. it was not a reactive thread considering provocations like the picture. i'm not even mentioning the second one, which was bad enough. but the first one is beyond the pale. you push buttons, then you blame the elevator. i hope you're not going to tell me this or that happened before. is it relevant? how could it possibly be?
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Glasgow
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  6:37:51 PM  Show Profile  Visit Glasgow's Homepage  Reply with Quote
roshan if you cannot see her self-victimization...

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RobinFalsehood
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  6:49:32 PM  Show Profile  Visit RobinFalsehood's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Glasgow

roshan if you cannot see her self-victimization...




one of the 8's biggest fears is that of being a victim..
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Roshan
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  6:51:58 PM  Show Profile  Visit Roshan's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Glasgow

roshan if you cannot see her self-victimization...





i didn't say what i see or don't see about her. today i saw you put up the picture and a couple of hours later she put up the thread and the post was normal, a lot of other people could've written it, and then you started with your schpiel about what's wrong with her, victim, reactive, yada yada yada. all i said was you push the buttons, then you blame the elevator. i am not interested in the elevator right now. i am interested in you. you push her, then you say calm down.

i see a lot. i have eye of eagle. don't worry about my vision. why didn't you take down the picture when you saw her post?

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Roshan
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  6:55:05 PM  Show Profile  Visit Roshan's Homepage  Reply with Quote
btw you have a scented candle burning for you on the other thread
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enforest
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  7:03:36 PM  Show Profile  Visit enforest's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Saintly

Why is it funny? I'm lost.

Is it because I've challenged you all? So you'd rather right me off as snarky and gollum-like than someone with an opinion?
It's funny to me because it's so blaringly off about you and obviously meant to provoke, but in such an unsubtle and crass way. It's juvenile and shouldn't be taken seriously. I was wondering how you'd take it but it either triggered you to create that thread or you were going there already anyway.

I think I get what Glasgow was trying to convey about your moods and behaviour, but either he is really unaware of how it would come across or he injected a bit too much fantasy into his conception of you. You are not Gollum.

I felt the comparison was absurd, and that made me laugh. Maybe some people like to react by being serious, but my laughing about it had something serious to it: I don't buy his crap. I'm not writing you off as Gollum, but I'm writing off the Gollum-Saintly connection as a big joke. In a sense, my laughter was meant to protect. Otherwise you will wound your heart with things that can only bring you down.

note: I don't have the particular moral seriousness of a 1fixer, but in my own way I expressed a similar thing. Maybe you'd never laugh in such a situation, but for me laughter wasn't just "Haha, everything is peachy keen". It was a way to diffuse something potentially cutting.

Also (to your other post about challenging me): I don't really feel you've challenged me. I don't particularly have good feelings towards you, but I'm certainly not apathetic. I don't condone someone chasing you around the board trying to get to you. Just like what I perceived him doing with JoL just yesterday (again, so typical for him, lol). I also don't think you understand his motivations from how you've approached him, though. He's a relatively misunderstood poster. I think the best thing would be for you to ignore him since it doesn't seem like you two are going to understand each other anytime soon. But then again, you're leaving anyway.


This board is about as healthy and useful to someone's progression as a year's supply of McDonalds.
gross, lol

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S
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Posted - 09 Dec 2011 :  7:07:48 PM  Show Profile  Visit S's Homepage  Reply with Quote
You're wondering why a social 6 reacts to injustice?

...



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