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THE REFORMER
Overview of Type One
Voicing the common theme of evangelical consciousness
of the self before regeneration, John Greene, a New England Puritan of the
mid-seventeenth century, acknowledged that God had let him 'see much of the
wretchedness' of his heart, and he 'thought none so vile as I none so evil an
heart so proud so stubborn so rebellious and I thought God would never show
mercy to so vile a miserable wretch as I was.' This vision of the inward self,
a vision experienced in greater and lesser degree by most evangelicals, was the
source of the despair and hopelessness that so often preceded
conversions....Not until individuals could bring themselves, or be brought by
God, to reject their very selves as worthless, sinful, and justly damned
creatures, could they ever hope to be born again. (Philip Greven, The Protestant Temperament, p. 75)
The Puritans' desire for self-regeneration by striving
after ideals is an expression of the personality type One. Not content to be as
they are, Ones and Puritans alike feel the obligation to be better. They must
somehow rise higher, beyond human nature into the realm of the Absolute.
To this personality type, the advice of
"Desiderata" sounds foolish and dangerous: "Beyond a wholesome
discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less
than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not
it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should." As
far as average to unhealthy Ones can tell, the universe is emphatically not unfolding as it should. People are
not trying hard enough to improve either the universe or themselves.
What Ones typically do not see is that, given their
fundamental premises, they are locked in conflicts between opposing forces that
cannot be reconciled either in themselves or in the universe. They keenly feel
the struggle between good and evil, the flesh and the spirit, the ideal and the
real. For Ones, the battle lines are sharply drawn between the chaotic,
irrational side of their natures and the clarity of their convictions, between
their dark libidinous impulses and their self-control, between their
metaphysical aspirations and their human needs—between their ideals and their
hearts.
In the
Instinctive Triad Ones are the type in the Instinctive Triad who
"underexpress" instincts and drives. Ones, like Eights, are people of action,
who respond at a gut level to the situations they encounter, but while Eights
give free reign to their instincts, and Nines are "out of touch" with them,
Ones try to pull them in, to limit and direct them toward the goals which their
superegos deem worthy. Ones are full of passions, mostly expressed as a strong
sense of conviction in their beliefs and actions, but they feel compelled to
keep their instincts in check lest they be overwhelmed by them.
Anger, in particular, is a powerful motivation for
Ones. When they are confronted with circumstances which disappoint or displease
them, anger becomes a form of fuel which launches them into action. Indeed,
anger, rightly understood is an instinctual response to a situation we are not
satisfied with. It is the energy that allows us to say "no." Some Ones become
conscious of this, and use their anger constructively.
I have
learnt through bitter experience the one supreme lesson: to conserve my anger,
and as heat conserved is transmuted into energy, even so our anger controlled
can be transmuted into a power which can move the world.
(Mohandas K. Gandhi, The Words of Gandhi, 13)
It is striking, however, that Ones are often unaware
of their anger, and almost always underestimating the degree of it. When their
anger is brought to their attention, Ones often respond with a disclaimer ("I’m
not angry! I’m just trying to get this right.") Whatever Ones may wish
to call their intense feelings, and under whatever guise they may appear, they
are the force which truly directs a One’s actions. Ones often portray
themselves as rational, but they are rational in the way that "common sense" is
rational, not in the exploratory, intellectual sense. Ones do like ideas, but
they like practical ideas, and unlike
Fives, will not be long interested in ideas or concepts that so not lead them
directly into constructive action.
Instinctive energy has much to do with a person’s
ability to assert themselves, and accordingly, Ones appear to be very sure of
themselves, although their self-confidence lies less in themselves than in the
rightness of their ideals. Despite appearances, Ones relate to the world by
seeing themselves as "less than" an ideal toward which they strive.
They subordinate themselves and their powerful instinctive drives to an
abstraction—usually an intangible, universal value such as truth or
justice—striving to be as perfect as it is. Unlike Nines, who are also
idealistic but are often detached from the inner drive to attain their vision,
Ones are determined to make their ideals a reality. Ironically, by definition,
the ideal is something they must work toward but can never fully attain.
Nevertheless, as we shall see, average to unhealthy Ones certainly feel
uplifted from the run of ordinary mortals by the attempt to do so.
This is where Ones begin to have problems. As they
deteriorate toward neurosis, average Ones begin to identify with the ideal so
completely that unhealthy Ones think they have attained it—and that everyone
who has not should be condemned. On one level of awareness, even unhealthy Ones
know they are not perfect, yet on another level they think and act as if they
were already perfect to avoid being condemned either by their consciences or by
anyone else. Average to unhealthy Ones are convinced that the more zealously
they strive for perfection, the more they are made righteous by the attempt.
They think that by aligning themselves with the ideal, they will always be in
the right, no matter how badly they fail. The mere act of identifying
themselves with the ideal makes them feel that they are better than the rest of
the world. They are among the saved because they know the right way, the way
everything ought to be.
Problems
with Repression and Aggression Like the other two personality types in the
Instinctive Triad, Ones have a problem with the repression of some part of
their psyches. Ones repress the more irrational side of their natures, their
instinctual impulses and personal desires, attempting to sublimate them in a
quest for perfection. Their normal human desires gradually become more and more
repressed as Ones are caught in conflicts between striving after ideals and
implementing them in the real world. The picture is further complicated,
however, because Ones relate to the world dualistically: they see themselves as
less than the ideal, while giving the impression that they are also greater
than the environment, which they are obligated to improve. They constantly
measure not only the distance between themselves and the ideal, but also the
distance between their present perfection and their past imperfection. Simply put, Ones feel that they an their
world must be "making progress." Anything that is perceived as blocking or
frustrating progress toward the ideal is met with anger and aggression.
Actually, there is a double dichotomy in Ones. The
first is the external dichotomy we have just seen: the pressure of living up to
an ideal versus the conviction of that one is perfectly right, that one knows
better than others what is needed in any situation. The second is an internal
dichotomy, which is less obvious: a split between the tightly controlled,
rational side of themselves which they present to the world versus their
repressed drives and feelings. Ironically, Ones are often emotional
and passionate about their convictions, but
they are not always aware of this. They
like to see themselves as rational and balanced, but they are nevertheless
keenly aware of their emotions, particularly their aggressive and sexual
impulses. Although they attempt to keep their impulses in check as much as
possible, they are never as successful in this as they would like.
Because of these dichotomies, average to unhealthy
Ones always feel caught in conflicts: between the perfection of their ideal and
their own imperfections; between feeling virtuous and feeling sinful; between
their actions and their consciences; between their desire for order and the
disorder they see everywhere; between good and evil; between God and the Devil.
The personality type One corresponds to the
extroverted thinking type in the Jungian typology; it is one of Jung's clearest
descriptions.
This type of man elevates objective reality, or an
objectively oriented intellectual formula, into the ruling principle not only
for himself but for his whole environment. By this formula good and evil are
measured, and beauty and ugliness determined. Everything that agrees with this
formula is right, everything that contradicts it is wrong.... Because this
formula seems to embody the entire meaning of life, it is made into a universal
law which must be put into effect everywhere all the time, both individually
and collectively. Just as the extroverted thinking type subordinates himself to
his formula, so, for their own good, everybody round him must obey it too, for
whoever refuses to obey it is wrong—he is resisting the universal law, and is
therefore unreasonable, immoral, and without a conscience. His moral code
forbids him to tolerate exceptions; his ideal must under all circumstances be
realized.... This is not from any great love of his neighbor, but from the
higher standpoint of justice and truth.... 'Oughts' and 'musts' bulk large in
this programme. If the formula is broad enough, this type may play a very
useful role in social life as a reformer or public prosecutor or purifier of
conscience.... But the more rigid the formula, the more he develops into a
martinet, a quibbler, and a prig, who would like to force himself and others
into one mould. Here we have the two extremes between which the majority of
these types move. (C. G. Jung, Psychological
Types, 347.)
From our point of view, we can see that Jung is
describing various points along the continuum of the One's traits: average Ones
are reformers and public prosecutors, whereas unhealthy Ones intolerantly try
to force others into their mold, and so forth. As we will see, the full
spectrum of the One's traits encompasses some of the most noble and least
admirable aspects of human nature. When they are healthy, Ones can be the most
objective, principled, and wise of all the personality types. As much as
humanly possible, they try not to let their personal feelings get in the way of
dealing fairly with others. They are deeply concerned with justice, not merely
for themselves but for everyone.
But to contrast this, when they are unhealthy their
lives are a relentless application of their ideals to every conceivable
situation. Unhealthy Ones become extremely intolerant of anyone who disagrees
with them, and since they are convinced that they alone know the TRUTH (writ
large, in capital letters), everything follows from that. What does not is to
be condemned and severely punished. The problem is, however, that human nature
keeps cropping up: unhealthy Ones find that they cannot control themselves as
perfectly as they feel they must. Their impulses can be repressed for only so
long. The flesh will have its day.
Parental
OrientationsOnes develop as they do because as children they were
disconnected with their "protective figure," that adult in their early
childhood who was responsible for setting limits, giving guidelines, and
disciplining the child when necessary. This is the person who occupies the
traditional patriarchal role in the family. Often, the protective figure is the
father, but not always. In many families, the mother is the protective figure,
while in other families, a grandparent or sibling may play this role in the
child’s development. The disconnection with the protective figure, and what
that person symbolized, was of central importance to the development of their
superegos: these children felt that they could not rely on the structure and
guidelines provided by their family of origin. They may have experienced them
as arbitrary and unfair, or too strict, or too unstable. Whatever the
particulars, Ones were dissatisfied and frustrated with the structure and
limits that they received from the protective figure and so felt that they had
to develop their own guidelines. Ones try to transcend the rules of their
family of origin, by creating a code of ethics that is even more rigorous than
what is expected of them. In this way, Ones come to believe that they can avoid
condemnation by always attempting to be blameless.
This creates in Ones a relentless superego mechanism
whose constant message is "You are not acceptable as you are; you must be
better, always better." In more authoritarian or chaotic family systems,
these superego messages can become severe and inflexible. In such situations,
Ones’ own wishes and feelings were rarely if ever countenanced; instead, these
children felt that they always had to toe the line to avoid being criticized or
condemned. As a result, their emotions and other impulses were repressed by
forces symbolized by an internalized punishing father. (Freudians see toilet
training as the arena in which the anal traits of the obsessive-compulsive type
which correspond to the One were learned. While the Freudian anal traits of
orderliness, parsimony, and obstinacy are seen in Ones, especially those with a
Nine-wing, we do not have to restrict ourselves to toilet issues alone to
understand the origins of this personality type.)
These children may have become disconnected from the
protective figure for any number of reasons. The protective figure may have
been absent from the family, or been abusive, or have treated the child
unfairly. Or as a result of a stern moral and religious upbringing and the
threat of eternal punishment, the child may have feared offending God the
Father and being condemned. The child may have feared being sent to hell for
being impulsive, pleasure seeking, or selfish, or for other actions which were,
after all, merely the natural behavior of a child. In other cases, the One may
have experienced a fairly peaceful and normal childhood, but still felt that
there was something more to strive for—some higher ideal than was part of the
values of the child’s family or peers. Often, Ones felt uncomfortable being
children, or were not allowed to behave as children, and thus struggled to
become little adults before their time. Basically, because of the disconnect,
Ones decided that they had to rely on themselves for guidance, structure, and
discipline. They would have to parent themselves, and they would have to do a
better job of it than their protective figure.
It is also worth noting that they did not rebel
against strictures on themselves; rather, they internalized control in their
consciences by feeling guilty for their transgressions. Nevertheless, they felt
angry that the burden of perfection was placed on them, and more angry still
when they saw others who were not subject to the same control of their feelings
and impulses. The freedom of others (to Ones, the license which others grant
themselves) antagonizes them and makes them chafe under the weight of their own
prohibitions.
Problems
with Anger and Perfection Ironically, Ones vent their anger most unfairly at
others when they are angry primarily with themselves for not being perfect.
Instead of resolving their own disordered feelings, average to unhealthy Ones
find fault everywhere else. Their self-righteous anger makes Ones aggressive;
however, the One is not an aggressive personality type as such. Actually, Ones
are compliant to their ideals, to their superego, since the ideal is the
yardstick by which they measure everything, including themselves. The
aggression in their personalities is an expression of anger at themselves and
others for not complying perfectly to the ideal.
Moreover, their anger signals the fact that they put
too great a load upon themselves and others: perfection is a burden that human
nature cannot bear. What is difficult for Ones to accept is the interdependence
of flesh and spirit which is the natural state of man. Of its nature, the
irrational part of themselves cannot be perfected or controlled in the same way
that the rational part of themselves can be. Nevertheless, they try to do so,
denying all that is base, that is, human in themselves, so that they will be
more like the ideal. Ultimately, Ones feel guilty for being human. They fear
being condemned because they are not angels.
When Ones are healthy, however, their objective
orientation to life allows them to remain firmly in touch with human realities,
including their own. They are the most discerning, moral, and reasonable of all
the personality types, tolerant of others and of themselves. They recognize
that their ideals may not apply equally to everyone in all circumstances. But
when they are unhealthy, their behavior is a twisted caricature of their
virtues because their humanity has become perverted. Unhealthy Ones punish
others for their least faults while absolving themselves of their greater sins.
They are completely without mercy because they have lost contact with humanity.
If ideals do not serve human beings, what purpose do they serve?
(from Personality Types, p. 377-384)
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